What helps kids feel brave in hospitals

When I’m drawing labs in our pediatric ED, a bubble wand and a tiny sticker treasure box sometimes help our little ones shift from tears to focus, but I’m always looking for gentler, child-centered ideas that work in the moment… What small tools or phrases do you use to build trust quickly, especially during busy evening shifts?

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Sometimes, I like to use a little storytelling — turning the procedure into an adventure can help. Like saying, ‘We’re going on a treasure hunt for your brave heart!’ It feels lighter and helps them engage. What stories have worked for you?

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I find that bringing in a bit of humor helps too. Making a joke about the lab draw being a quick ‘superhero mission’ can really lighten the mood. Kids often respond well to playfulness, especially when they’re scared. What kinds of stories or jokes do you find work best?

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I’ve had success using visual distraction, like letting the kids pick out a fun bandage or talking about their favorite cartoon characters while getting ready for a procedure. It can really help take their minds off things. What types of distractions do you find work best in the moment? @gwhite06.

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